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puzzled
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posted on 07-15-2006 at 18:34 |
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should I wait?
I am 15 yrs old and will be 16 in an month. My boyfriend is 17. And me and him been thinking about having sex. But I dont know if Im ready. I let him play wit me and stuff like that. I be wanting to have sex but its the simple fact is I dont know what my mother would do or say if she found out. My boyfriend is not an virgin and he said that he would love to be first. I have also saw my boyfriends penis and it looked like it would hurt for it to go inside of me.;(.. What should I do or say?(:\)
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luckycharmsuntouched
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posted on 07-15-2006 at 23:02 |
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Puzzled,
If you are questioning so much if your boyfriend is the person you should have sex with, then i am willing to bet that he is not the person you should lose your virginity to. how long have you been dating him?
I know this sounds harsh but have you considered the fact that he might just date you until he has sex with you and then turn around and dump you? this has been know to happen. plus the fact that he is older than you i would be ware of him trying to take advantage of you.
You say your boyfriend is not a virgin, i would make sure he gets tested for STDs before you decide to have sex with him. i know that this sounds really unromantic but you have to look out for yourself. if he refuses, or gets embarassed about it then you should question if he is responsible enough for sex.
Have you thought about how having sex will affect you emotionally?
Make sure that this is what you really want to do before you do it.
I would suggest waiting longer because you will be glad you did. I dont know all of the details so its hard for me to give you completely objective advice for what to do in this situation. So just consider what you are doing before you get in way over your head.
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puzzled
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posted on 07-15-2006 at 23:36 |
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MESSAGE
CAN I TALK 2 U N PRIVATE
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luckycharmsuntouched
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posted on 07-16-2006 at 22:30 |
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Sure you can talk to me in private. just send me an email if you would like to on the u2u messaging.
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luckycharmsuntouched
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posted on 07-16-2006 at 22:38 |
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or you can send me an e-mail
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