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alexmalik9
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posted on 07-19-2004 at 20:41 |
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giving good oral
oral
Ok well I am a newly wed woman who decided to wait until marriage to give my first "blow job" as it is sometimes termed. I am a weirdo I guess because I decided I want to be really good at it and my husband isn't comfortable enough yet to give me tips and pointers. While we are trying to work through this I just wondered if someone else could give me good tips? I dont know the first thing about pleasing my man. However I want to make him squirm and squeal!!! HELP!!!
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Poet_Daddy
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posted on 07-20-2004 at 20:50 |
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Here are some pointers from a man who has trained many girls to be experts:
1. Look him in the eyes as much as possible; this makes it more intimate and shows your desire to please him, not just have sex.
2. Start off slowly, focusing on the tip, then gradually bringing more inside your mouth.
3. Alternate the in-mouth time with long, slow licks up and down the shaft, as well as flicking and circling the head with your tongue.
4. At some point look him in the eye and suck on the tip like it's a baby bottle, then suddenly take it deep inside your mouth,
5. While it's inside your mouth, don't let your tongue rest; swirl it around the tip and shaft.
6. Sounds: When you are in control, make "mmmm" sounds like it tastes good and you're hungry for it. But if he grabs your head and moves his cock inside your mouth at his control, then make whimpering sounds like he is overwhelming you.
7. Now and then stop and say something cute and girly....just to tease him.
8. Rub it across your lips, your face, tap it against your lips.
9. Nibble gently here and there, but never scrape with your teeth.
10. Find out his preference for his coming, whether he wants you to swallow it, take it as a facial, or (My favorite) let it dribble down your chin. When all is finished, lick him clean.
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auntpolly
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Registered: 05-20-2004 Location:
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posted on 07-29-2004 at 08:33 |
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Some tips for oral sex (for women)
Always take your time! Twice as slow will feel twice as good (at least in the beginning ) But then faster will feel better for most men.
Ask your partner what he likes, and have him guide you.
When he shows that she really likes what you are doing, that does not mean to go faster, that means keep doing what you are doing exactly the way you are doing it Unless he tells you other wise!
Start with very light strokes, then increase pressure as she becomes more and more aroused.
You your hands as well to stroke the shaft of his penis at the same time you are sucking on the head of the penis.
Don't forget to lick and caress and suck on his balls as well as his penis.
Many men get turned on when women can take the man's penis deeply into her mouth and throat. This is called deep throating. You must learn how to relax your gag reflex in order to do this. The best way to learn this is to practice on a penis shaped dildo so you can control the motion and and learn with out the fear of gagging on your partner.
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germ57
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Registered: 05-07-2004 Location:
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posted on 07-29-2004 at 08:38 |
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For men & women.
Great oral pleasure starts with having great kissing technique. You must know how to kiss and turn your partner on. Then move to other parts of their body, i.e. neck, nipples, midsection, back , legs and finally moving to her Vulva (vaginal lips) or his penis and scrotum (balls.) You must be skilled at caressing and stimulating all of these areas with your mouth and tongue.
Many men rush into oral sex and ruin the state of arousal and diminish the level of pleasure that they could give their partner with proper technique. This is such a shame, because you are robbing both you and her from a truly incredible experience.
Always remember the key to pleasing a woman is to tease her first and build her arousal. You should always have this in the back of your mind!
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dr.Aid
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Registered: 07-29-2004 Location:
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posted on 07-29-2004 at 11:13 |
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Re:
Oral sex is beneficial in a relationship when there is a true relationship. Sex, including oral sex, is not meant to be unsafe or casual, get it? If you choose to practice oral sex, be certain that you and your partner use protection, (i.e. latex condoms, dental dams, saran wrap, etc...)
Keep in mind that you should not feel pressured do anything that you are not comfortable with, and no person should expect to receive oral sex without reciprocating.
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AdviceMan
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Registered: 08-28-2004 Location:
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posted on 08-29-2004 at 03:43 |
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Alex if you want to give good oral heres a great idea:
As soon as you climb into bed with your new hubby pull out the Penthouse magazine and give an oral recital of the (Dear Penthouse) portion of the magazine to your hubby.
Example: You begin to read: Dear Hustler: As I was driving along a narrow stretch of back road my eye caught a strapping young man about 18 years old hitchhiking through the same lonely stretch of road.
I picked him up and about 20 miles down the road I began to place my hand between his ***** and he obliged my by allowing me to pull over and we both stripped down naked and began to **** passionately! After we both **** he thanked me and headed off into the woods.
I headed home and proceeded to ravage my husband sexually over and over all night long! The End.
I guarantee you that your new hubby will be finished ****** before you finish the story.
Kiss him good night and you both will sleep tight.
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