virginguy81
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posted on 01-21-2006 at 11:12 |
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ool dont wait
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20yearsavi
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posted on 02-07-2006 at 13:04 |
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virgins
its not all true, there are girls that are still virgins, I know alot our age range. Im 20 and im still waiting for the right guy. no worries you'll find someone right for you.
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sweettart
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posted on 03-15-2006 at 22:38 |
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virgin women
Did someone say "Virgin women!!!!!!"Older virgin in her 30's.
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rose4reals
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posted on 03-28-2006 at 03:36 |
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u can't b right
infact, i should say there are more virgin ladies than guys out there who claim to be. ladies are smhow reserved and shy when it comes to sex but u just have to watch out for the real ones cos u cld be deceived.
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Casanova303
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posted on 03-29-2006 at 13:15 |
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chav girls
I am 18 and there are more sluts running about today than any other human....they will open their legs for anyone......well for chavs anyway.......little sluts cant stand them where have all the normal girls gong?
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dreamangel
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posted on 03-29-2006 at 14:16 |
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re
'I am 18 and there are more sluts running about today than any other human....they will open their legs for anyone......well for chavs anyway.......little sluts cant stand them where have all the normal girls gong?'
It's because so many guys have 'three date rules' and so on, that girls just think they have 'no choice' but to have sex with everyone. They foolishly do it because they think it's the only way to keep a guy interested....if they only knew!
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thismooseissex
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posted on 04-04-2006 at 12:06 |
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oh people.
i hear you on that one. im 19 and still a virgin and 4 of my friends i used to work with b/w agge18-20 were all virgins. im not waiting for marriage by any means but ppl are right about the thinking they have to do have sex with guys to keep them interested or to get them interested in the first place. thats why i dont have a boyfriend b/c the girls where i live start putting out when they are around age 13-14 , the guys start to expect it and when you dont put out. bam. your dumped. my sister had a friend that lost her virginity to her sisters boyfriend. :(sad.
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dreamangel
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posted on 04-04-2006 at 21:14 |
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But....
Yet, when it comes down to a real relationship, these guys who go for the girls who put-out right away will no longer be interested in them for anything serious. It's a misconception to assume only virgins get rejected/ignored if they don't put out. Many women who put-out get dumped/used/rejected on a regular basis as well....Trying to keep a guy interested with sex is a disaster-this is why SO many women turn jaded toward men. No amount of sex will keep a guy interested...what's to stop them from finding sex with the next available female right? There is nothing that distinguishes you from any other women they could be f****ing.
Girls 'think' they are attracting the guy more, but what they don't realize, is that a guy will sleep with anyone, regardless if he even 'likes' her, let alone if he's in love...A guy who is truly in love or interested in a relationship would wait. These girls think they are keeping the guy interested when sadly, the guy was never interested in them to begin with...ONLY for sex and their body. All the girls are doing is giving the guy the upper hand, and allowing themselves to be used. Women don't even realize the power they have by raising guys up to their standards, and choosing when to have sex. The women should always be in-control when it comes to sex, and instead women have given men power over their life and their decisions.
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Francie_81
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posted on 04-07-2006 at 09:19 |
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My verdict
Jake are you forgetting something about these beautiful russian virgins?I get the feeling its a dating agency your talking about?I don't think I'd go near one of those for something serious to be honest I just rather meet her the proper way socially and if I don't I don't its not meant to be but I do intend going abroad to a hot spot for abit of fun thats how far I'd go.
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Nina81
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posted on 04-09-2006 at 01:43 |
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Virgin
Hello,
Glad to hear there are still some virgin guys out there. I come from a culture where boys are encouraged/pressured to have sex at an early age, therefore I never think of guys past the age of 18 as virgins. I'm 25 and still a virgin...waiting to have that wonderful experience with someone who wants to spend the rest of his life with me (spouse)...there are times when I kind of get discouraged because I want to have a boyfriend and all the guys I meet only seem to be interested in sex and then once they know I'm a virgin they stop dating me...I know if they can't respect my decision then it's better to go away from my life...but it kind of sucks sometimes 'cause I want to find a good boyfriend and just the right one is taking too long :(
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Francie_81
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posted on 04-09-2006 at 14:32 |
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Opposite
Well nina its just the same as secually active girls thinking the same as male virgins,but hey too bad you don't live here cos we could be the perfect couple ;).To be honest though I thought of waiting for ms right but sure why wait when you only live once?From now on I'll be out every weekend to ENJOY soo basically just live for the weekend.
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Francie_81
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posted on 04-09-2006 at 14:34 |
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Opposite
Well nina its just the same as sexually active girls thinking the same as male virgins,but hey too bad you don't live here cos we could be the perfect couple *wink*.to be honest though i thought of waiting for ms right but sure why wait when you only live once?from now on i'll be out every weekend to ENJOY soo basically just live for the weekend.
p.s. sorry about the repost
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Nina81
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 14:06 |
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Confused...
Francie81...so where exactly do you live? LOL
Being serious...yeah, sometimes I just feel like since this life is only lived once and we never know when it will come to an end...maybe it wouldn't hurt to have some fun responsibly with someone I like...I'm confused and desperate!! Sometimes I feel that if I would've lost it at a younger age this wouldn't be a big deal anymore...arggghh...dunno anymore!
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Francie_81
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posted on 04-11-2006 at 16:27 |
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Hi
Well nina nice to hear from ya again.I ONLY live in Ireland sure its only water separating us lol,but hey you can write me if ya want so just say the word *wink*. May I ask if you go out socially?Well if not well then its time to start going out and meeting people, by doing so will make it alot easier to meet the man of your dreams because he's gonna come knocking on your door vice/versa and thats exactly why i've started to go out its the only way, in my teen years I was very much anti-social maybe because of my quietness/oddness and thats probably why am a virgin to this day cos i missed out on all that,and yes am sure people who lost it at an early age wouldn't even think about it as a big deal.Am telling get out and enjoy because life is too short to be thinking about virginity (eventhough am abit frustrated myself) and if the opportunity comes along go for it, if a fella turns you down whatever well thats his problem not yours just don't give a *** * what people think, thats the kinda attitude everyone should have in life you'll be respected more. And as I say if ya wanna talk just say soo ok.
Take care,
Franko
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virginguy81
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posted on 04-12-2006 at 08:48 |
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hello nina
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Coco20
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posted on 05-14-2006 at 21:31 |
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Im a Virgin and Im Proud!
Im a 20 year old virgin myself and Im proud of myself.Im not like these other girls Im able to wait but sooner or later I know its has to happen u never know it could happen with u.
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LatinTraveler
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posted on 05-15-2006 at 16:00 |
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Virgins in Peru
I have several friend that just married virgins. They met them in Lima Peru. This is a very religions Catholic society. A majority of the women 20 and younger are still virgins.
You might look there if you want to find an nice virgin.
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searching4mywife
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posted on 09-08-2011 at 07:24 |
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do good guys really finish last?
i'm starting to believe good men do finish last, all i see are good women who deserve to be happy with a good man going for the obviously good for nothing men with only onething on heir mind, but soon as a good guy come along the excuses i personally hear is oh your too good to be true, you seem to nice, and the most annoying your game is weak, i really don't understand it last time i checked being upfront and real with someone is not suppose to be a game because having game last time i checked is just a sugar coated way of a guy lying his way into a womans pants i really don't understand, can someone really tell me if i am being too nice? what does it take these days to find a good woman that has respect for herself and body to settle down with and just be a happy family? are virvins really not looking for a good man who wants to settle down and start a family??
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Marctruth1978
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posted on 12-20-2011 at 10:02 |
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Female Virgins?
Hello,
In the past five years I've only spoken to two women who are genuine virgins, so they are out there but in an EXTREMELY SMALL MINORITY. Most women and men today seem to be very very promiscuous, ie they go from one partner to another and then onto another without any respite in-between. Sadly casual sex is so common place in today's society with teenagers becoming sexual active at a much younger age than ever before.
Marc
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shemekia76
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posted on 12-31-2011 at 22:55 |
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virgin in my 30's
'Hello,
In the past five years I've only spoken to two women who are genuine virgins, so they are out there but in an EXTREMELY SMALL MINORITY. Most women and men today seem to be very very promiscuous, ie they go from one partner to another and then onto another without any respite in-between. Sadly casual sex is so common place in today's society with teenagers becoming sexual active at a much younger age than ever before.
Marc'
Its true I'm a virgin, I feel out of place when I go out with friends...but they don't know I'm a virgin though, i just never said anything. Just never came up. I guess they figured I'm a women in my thirtys ,but it never happened. Its very difficult to be a dating virgin, men now want sex before they get your name. It sucks
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Marctruth1978
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posted on 01-02-2012 at 18:23 |
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Virginity In Your Thirties
' 'Hello,
In the past five years I've only spoken to two women who are genuine virgins, so they are out there but in an EXTREMELY SMALL MINORITY. Most women and men today seem to be very very promiscuous, ie they go from one partner to another and then onto another without any respite in-between. Sadly casual sex is so common place in today's society with teenagers becoming sexual active at a much younger age than ever before.
Marc'
Its true I'm a virgin, I feel out of place when I go out with friends...but they don't know I'm a virgin though, i just never said anything. Just never came up. I guess they figured I'm a women in my thirtys ,but it never happened. Its very difficult to be a dating virgin, men now want sex before they get your name. It sucks'
If you're in your thirties (female or male) and have never had sex it puts you in a somewhat difficult but unique position. I've been on a dating site for almost 5 years now and seen just how easy it is to obtain sex but the reason I haven't is because I wanted someone (a woman) who was not promiscuous/a serial dater to have a relationship with, this is not easy to find. From my experience the dating world certainly sucks if you're a ''dating virgin''.
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